There are several occasions in your life when you get physically attracted to someone.
Someone of the opposite sex, obviously!
There are times when you meet this person only once.
She may be someone you happen to pass by or notice when you are in a market, mall, railway station, airport, bus stand, hospital, clinic, etc.
Or someone you happen to meet with or talk to while traveling, attending a training or conference, social function, etc.
Or someone you happen to catch a glimpse of quite fleetingly while driving through or traveling by a taxi or a cab.
You like her for certain reasons.
You like the twinkle in her eyes.
You like her smile and her teeth when she smiles.
You like her figure and enjoy that when she is passing across.
You like her dressing sense.
You like her body hugging clothes and imagine several things in your head.
You like her tight fitting clothes and imagine several things in your head.
You like her body revealing clothes and imagine several things in your head.
You imagine going to bed with her.
There are, however, times when you meet this person several times.
She could be your neighbour.
Or an office colleague.
Or a member of your team itself.
Or someone superior to you in the office.
Or someone who is your subordinate and who reports into you.
You get to know that she is not married so you also imagine that she could be open and ready for emotional and physical relation with you.
You get to know about her emotional and physical vulnerabilities and develop some feeling and compassion for her.
You go with her on work related trips so that you can be physically close to her.
You imagine making love to her while on such trips.
You like her voice and how she talks.
You wait every day to have a glimpse of her.
You stealthily view the contours of her body as much as you can and relish that a lot.
You try to have as many face to face interactions with her as you can.
You even think of her at times while making love with you wife.
You check her whatsapp profile frequently.
You check her and her friends facebook profile frequently.
You keep a track of her profiles on other social media channels.
You search for her pictures on google.
You download her pictures and keep looking at them.
You also edit and crop her picture.
You enhance and modify her picture to get some sort of vicarious physical pleasure.
You are tempted to do the above, again and again.
You are under some kind of intoxication!
You know it is more of physical and sexual attraction,
You know it is carnal.
You know it is a desire for physical contact that is driven by lust.
You know it is just some kind of infatuation.
You also know you got to be careful with this kind of thing.
And you also know clearly that you could get into trouble if you don't handle it properly.
So you exercise care and caution.
And make sure you keep things only in your mind!
