In a nutshell, what you should expect are just three simple things:
Love and affection
Your spouse should really love you and have deep affection for you.
This would show you are important for your spouse.
Lack of this would mean:
Your spouse should care for you and should have lot of concern for your well-being.
This would show you really matter for your spouse.
Lack of this would mean:
Your spouse should have close bonding and good understanding with you,
This would show you and your spouse live like life partners and not room mates.
Lack of this mean:
Love and affection
Your spouse should really love you and have deep affection for you.
This would show you are important for your spouse.
Lack of this would mean:
- She would neither get physically intimate with you not reciprocate appropriately to your efforts to get physically intimate with her.
- She would resist and trivialize any display of love and affection.
Your spouse should care for you and should have lot of concern for your well-being.
This would show you really matter for your spouse.
Lack of this would mean:
- She would not bother to call you and check whether you are getting food properly and regarding your well being when you are away to another city, for short or long period.
- She is not at all concerned with your physical and mental needs but only about the needs of others.
Your spouse should have close bonding and good understanding with you,
This would show you and your spouse live like life partners and not room mates.
Lack of this mean:
- She has her own agenda and your priorities and expectations are immaterial to her.
- She is only interested in things that are important for her needs, and for her it is only she and there is no we
