How you carry yourself and how you conduct your affairs is an important attribute of your overall personality.
There are some personal traits that you should always avoid.
Interestingly, these attributes start with the same letter B!
These Big Bs are to be strictly avoided if you want people to like you.
Remember, on their own, no one would tolerate or accept these Big Bs.
Here is the list of the Big Bs you should avoid, always.
- Bulldoze
- Bully
- Bargain
- Blackmail
- Badger
And here is what they mean and what they indicate about your personal traits.
Bulldoze:
- clear (ground) or destroy (buildings, trees, etc.) with a bulldozer
- This is the tendency to not let others express their views and thoughts and impose your whims and fancies on them.
- seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce someone perceived as vulnerable
- This is the tendency to try to dominate others and make them feel intimidated of you so that they fall in line and follow your instructions.
Bargain:
- negotiate the terms and conditions of a transaction or an agreement between two or more parties as to what each party will do for the other
- This is the tendency to make someone follow your wish by offering them some temptations by evoking their weakness for something.
Blackmail:
- the action of demanding payment or another benefit from someone in return for not revealing compromising or damaging information about them
- This is the tendency to force someone to follow your instructions by creating a situation where that person is left with no choice but to obey you.
Badger:
- repeatedly ask (someone) to do something; pester
- This is the tendency to bug and bother someone by asking them the same thing again, and again and yet again.
